Should I propose to my high school sweetheart?
Question: We've known each other since the first day of her freshmen year. I was a sophomore. I never was social and some people would come up to me to talk, but I hated their attention. I never wanted to talk to anybody, either. She went up to me on a day she was bored and we quickly became attached. We helped each others' relationship problems and the next time we were single, we were together.
We're so happy together. Two years together. We're going to different universities. Should I propose? I'm so scared that I'm going to lose her if I don't.
Answers: I would say no. You don't sound like you are ready for this. You have a whole 4 years ahead of you where you are going to meet many other women. I think you should go on to school and see what happens in the end. Just because you help each other with problems is not a good match to make. Many people including myself have tried this - you fix everyone up - and in the end once everything is all fixed with both of you - one of you finds someone else that thrills you more. You should know the statistics by now. you are way to young to pass up on the opportunities that you might encounter. However I would like you to remain good friends if at all possible. Oh I wish you could understand more of what I am speaking about. I know exactly how you feel, but I will tell you that if I stayed with my high school sweetheart, I know I would have definately cheated on him when I was off at school. This is a very rough turning point in your life. Don't commit to her. Tell her you want to be friends always, however you think it would be best if you were not exclusive to each other while in college. you never know - when you get out and you both feel the same way - well then you will know it was meant to be. Good luck and be strong - I know it sucks, and is hard. But you will be glad you did it this way. I hope I helped you in making your decision.
No- date around first. You will always wonder. My highschool sweetheart proposed to me and I said no. I am married to a wonderful Turkish man now and am so very happy with my decision.
If you have to ask us, I don't think you are ready to propose.
I have to doubt the validity of this question for a number of reasons; however, assuming it is serious, I would challenge why you feel it necessary to seek the advice of absolute strangers. Further, if you have to ask, my guess is that you probably aren't ready.
It sounds to me as though this person was once the embodiment of a solution. What will happen on the day that she embodies a problem? I can guarantee you that if your general personality is one which hates attention, there may certainly come a day when you are a problem for her. The foundation of your relationship as you describe it is somewhat weak.
Finally, if going to the length of proposing marriage is the only method by which you believe you can keep this young woman, then I would recommend you re-evaluate your values.
Good luck.
The fact that you are asking that question makes me wanna say no, dont ask her. You are going to different universities, and both of you are going to mature. I know 2 people out of 13 that are still married. They married out of high school. If you decide to ask, think about the odds. You still have to grow up. Dont do something you probably will regret in a few years, or sooner.
If you think she the one for you GO FOR IT but if you are only asking because you don`t want to lose her then DON`T .
We're so happy together. Two years together. We're going to different universities. Should I propose? I'm so scared that I'm going to lose her if I don't.
Answers: I would say no. You don't sound like you are ready for this. You have a whole 4 years ahead of you where you are going to meet many other women. I think you should go on to school and see what happens in the end. Just because you help each other with problems is not a good match to make. Many people including myself have tried this - you fix everyone up - and in the end once everything is all fixed with both of you - one of you finds someone else that thrills you more. You should know the statistics by now. you are way to young to pass up on the opportunities that you might encounter. However I would like you to remain good friends if at all possible. Oh I wish you could understand more of what I am speaking about. I know exactly how you feel, but I will tell you that if I stayed with my high school sweetheart, I know I would have definately cheated on him when I was off at school. This is a very rough turning point in your life. Don't commit to her. Tell her you want to be friends always, however you think it would be best if you were not exclusive to each other while in college. you never know - when you get out and you both feel the same way - well then you will know it was meant to be. Good luck and be strong - I know it sucks, and is hard. But you will be glad you did it this way. I hope I helped you in making your decision.
No- date around first. You will always wonder. My highschool sweetheart proposed to me and I said no. I am married to a wonderful Turkish man now and am so very happy with my decision.
If you have to ask us, I don't think you are ready to propose.
I have to doubt the validity of this question for a number of reasons; however, assuming it is serious, I would challenge why you feel it necessary to seek the advice of absolute strangers. Further, if you have to ask, my guess is that you probably aren't ready.
It sounds to me as though this person was once the embodiment of a solution. What will happen on the day that she embodies a problem? I can guarantee you that if your general personality is one which hates attention, there may certainly come a day when you are a problem for her. The foundation of your relationship as you describe it is somewhat weak.
Finally, if going to the length of proposing marriage is the only method by which you believe you can keep this young woman, then I would recommend you re-evaluate your values.
Good luck.
The fact that you are asking that question makes me wanna say no, dont ask her. You are going to different universities, and both of you are going to mature. I know 2 people out of 13 that are still married. They married out of high school. If you decide to ask, think about the odds. You still have to grow up. Dont do something you probably will regret in a few years, or sooner.
If you think she the one for you GO FOR IT but if you are only asking because you don`t want to lose her then DON`T .
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