What can I DO?HELP!!!!!?
Question: my boyfriend and i enjoyed life. i was very happy with his company. but one day, i saw him with another girl walking in the street closely. i was surprised and sad, then i cried all night. the next day i phoned him and asked if he still loved me. he told me sincerely that he loved me above every other girl. i rather believe him than myself, but i just cannot forget that situation. now what can i do?
Answers: tell him the truth, of what you saw that day. ANd tell him how that made you feel. And let it all out from there, what ever feels right to pour out and don't be afriad to ask questions. DOn't bottle up things like this again. You must let it out or you shall be even more upset if he does it again.
leave in a hurry and don't look back
sorry i dont know how to tackle this situation. i think u have to leave now and forget him forever
why dont you confront him about that encounter you will get your answer from his response. not only in what he says but in his body language.
Talk to him about the incident and be true with your feelings i ma=ean tell him how u feel about the situation. If u still have suspicsions don't continue in that kind of relationship
Don't ASSUME anything! This person he was with could be a close friend or friend of a relative.... If you don't know for sure who the person was you could be causing yourself undo stress. If you love him then keep going like nothing happened but you have the right to pay attention . See if his routines change or if he is making excuses not to be with you. Don't accuse him of anything until you know for sure because you may be throwing the man of your dreams right out the door. Be patient...life has a way of telling us the truth without a doubt. Best wishes to you.
His answer to you is not very comforting.....Above every other girl? You are very emotional right now and will probably benefit most by taking a step back from him and, really think about what you want from him.....You need to believe what your gut is telling you....If you think he is sincere let the sitution go and continue to see him...If you consider him to be YOUR boyfriend then you need to establish some boundaries with him and make it very clear to him that his behavior is unacceptable..Dont be a doormat...and let this go...He will lose any respect he has left for you..
Tell him what you saw on the day. Tell him your feeling. And then wait for his answer. If you think his answers are acceptable and reasonable, you have to learn how to forget that day. If not, maybe you two should seperate for a while.
It s this lack of communicaton that makes so many relationships fail...you see something you have no explanation for...you cry all night and let it fester inside you...you get pissed off and worried and then when he tells you yes he loves probably not knowing for sure why you asked.....you dont believe him cause of what you saw. TELL HIM WHAT YOU SAW. And tell him how that made you feel. Let him explain to you what happened...it could have been a friend, a relative, or his new gf....but you wont know until you ask. Either way stewing about it wont help. If its a friend or relative, you'll feel like an idiot for not asking sooner...if its his new gf its best to know now what he's like and move on.
Tell him what you saw. Its not like you were out spying on him or anything. You happened to spot him with another girl. Maybe she was just a co-worker or an old friend of his. If they weren't holding hand of anything like that then it doesn't have to be anything. My husband works with a few girls at his job, one whom I can't particularly stand because she always gives me dirty looks and always trys to get close to him. I ask him about her and he told me that he doesn't know whats up with her and that he doesn't want anything to do with her apart from work. Now that he knows how I feel, he makes sure to keep his distance from her. You boyfriend could be in the same situation with another girl where she is trying to get close to him and he just doesn't realize it because the only woman on his mind is you. Now, I'm not telling you nothing is going on. I could very well be wrong, but I just wanted to let you know that this could very well be what ha happened. Make sure to talk to him because if he really does love you then you don't want to loose him over so meaningless girl.
I think you need to leave because his actions speak louder then words. He may tell you he loves and cares about you but, his actions are to be with another woman.
Get out while you're young, find someone who's good, and forget this guy
If you both truly love one another you should be able to talk to him about this. Do it in a normal tone, tell him what you saw, how it made you feel and that you would like to know what it was about. You may find out it was really nothing at all.
well ask him who she was!!!
ask him about it, bet ya didn't do that. all u did was ask if he still loved u obviously he'll say yes. Confront him about it and see how he takes it. If it's a sincer no mend relationship n move along with it. If it's an obvious no or lie then high tail it out'ta there. No female deserves to cry, feel hurt or upset in a relationship.
Answers: tell him the truth, of what you saw that day. ANd tell him how that made you feel. And let it all out from there, what ever feels right to pour out and don't be afriad to ask questions. DOn't bottle up things like this again. You must let it out or you shall be even more upset if he does it again.
leave in a hurry and don't look back
sorry i dont know how to tackle this situation. i think u have to leave now and forget him forever
why dont you confront him about that encounter you will get your answer from his response. not only in what he says but in his body language.
Talk to him about the incident and be true with your feelings i ma=ean tell him how u feel about the situation. If u still have suspicsions don't continue in that kind of relationship
Don't ASSUME anything! This person he was with could be a close friend or friend of a relative.... If you don't know for sure who the person was you could be causing yourself undo stress. If you love him then keep going like nothing happened but you have the right to pay attention . See if his routines change or if he is making excuses not to be with you. Don't accuse him of anything until you know for sure because you may be throwing the man of your dreams right out the door. Be patient...life has a way of telling us the truth without a doubt. Best wishes to you.
His answer to you is not very comforting.....Above every other girl? You are very emotional right now and will probably benefit most by taking a step back from him and, really think about what you want from him.....You need to believe what your gut is telling you....If you think he is sincere let the sitution go and continue to see him...If you consider him to be YOUR boyfriend then you need to establish some boundaries with him and make it very clear to him that his behavior is unacceptable..Dont be a doormat...and let this go...He will lose any respect he has left for you..
Tell him what you saw on the day. Tell him your feeling. And then wait for his answer. If you think his answers are acceptable and reasonable, you have to learn how to forget that day. If not, maybe you two should seperate for a while.
It s this lack of communicaton that makes so many relationships fail...you see something you have no explanation for...you cry all night and let it fester inside you...you get pissed off and worried and then when he tells you yes he loves probably not knowing for sure why you asked.....you dont believe him cause of what you saw. TELL HIM WHAT YOU SAW. And tell him how that made you feel. Let him explain to you what happened...it could have been a friend, a relative, or his new gf....but you wont know until you ask. Either way stewing about it wont help. If its a friend or relative, you'll feel like an idiot for not asking sooner...if its his new gf its best to know now what he's like and move on.
Tell him what you saw. Its not like you were out spying on him or anything. You happened to spot him with another girl. Maybe she was just a co-worker or an old friend of his. If they weren't holding hand of anything like that then it doesn't have to be anything. My husband works with a few girls at his job, one whom I can't particularly stand because she always gives me dirty looks and always trys to get close to him. I ask him about her and he told me that he doesn't know whats up with her and that he doesn't want anything to do with her apart from work. Now that he knows how I feel, he makes sure to keep his distance from her. You boyfriend could be in the same situation with another girl where she is trying to get close to him and he just doesn't realize it because the only woman on his mind is you. Now, I'm not telling you nothing is going on. I could very well be wrong, but I just wanted to let you know that this could very well be what ha happened. Make sure to talk to him because if he really does love you then you don't want to loose him over so meaningless girl.
I think you need to leave because his actions speak louder then words. He may tell you he loves and cares about you but, his actions are to be with another woman.
Get out while you're young, find someone who's good, and forget this guy
If you both truly love one another you should be able to talk to him about this. Do it in a normal tone, tell him what you saw, how it made you feel and that you would like to know what it was about. You may find out it was really nothing at all.
well ask him who she was!!!
ask him about it, bet ya didn't do that. all u did was ask if he still loved u obviously he'll say yes. Confront him about it and see how he takes it. If it's a sincer no mend relationship n move along with it. If it's an obvious no or lie then high tail it out'ta there. No female deserves to cry, feel hurt or upset in a relationship.
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