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Question: HOW WE WILL KNOW THAT HE/SHE IS OUR SOULMATE?
LETS TAKE AN EXAMPLE OF ARRANGE MARRIAGE........
we are going to meet a person to whom we have never seened before,and have to decide then only that (we like him or not)we are going to marry him or not.
so how will know that he/she is our soulmate in such a short time?
plz answer me that how we could know the perfect one.....
suggest ur b'ful experiences,the best one will get the 20 points.
Answers: From the moment I met my childs father i instantly felt a connection with him. We became friends and shortly after I said a prayer. I was about to be going off to college or the military and i wanted to know my purpose and the road should travel. I was never ment to have kids so that was the furthest thing from my mind. We took things to the next step and I became pregnant. I knew the moment of us doing so that I was. I tell you this only because no matter how difficult things may be the person you should be with is who you will end up with. my heart is with him wherever he is, there isn't a second that I see him that my heart isn't racing and my energy levels rise. Look into this person's eyes. Do you see yourself? the moment that they touch you do you feel anything. When its the person you are ment to love you will feel it throughout tour body. even with just a look. you will know. I'm not saying that you shouldn't go through with this arrangement. some people fall in love with a person over time, others just know. Follow your instincts. If this is a person you think could love you and you love them back and have each others best interests at heart go for it. good luck
Do you really believe there is something called soul mate ?
Our beliefs are a mental status that are formed partially by our emotions and partially by our habits.
If you meet someone, who generally appeals to you emotionally, and you start acting as if this person is your soul mate, overtime and out of habit and affection this person will be your soul mate .
Time, it takes time be patient.
Chances are high that it wont be your soul mate. Just from personal expreience you cant put two people together and force them to love each other. There love should grow naturally and blossom into a flower. Heidi
Just look at the good in a person and live with the bad, unless it is self destructive. Everyone has their problems.
Many 'soul mates' discover that they have found the one after months of dating. It's not instant pudding, girl.
love is not something you can go out and look for..we all have our lives planed out for us and i strongly believe in fate!!! people believe dating the country will find their soulmate and that if you stop dating you are going to miss that Mr. right that is out there.. you will find you love in the most unexpected place and once youv found your soul mate, you will know, u wont have to ask.. its a wonderful feeling!! follow your heart.. gdluck
there is absolutely no way u can deside whether he is your soul mate or not from the first sight. u have to communicate with a person for some time. sometimes (very often) people live together all their lives but they re still not soul mates. sorry noone can help u on this one.
Follow your heart
you will defenitely get your answer
I doubt if you will be able to decide if someone is a soulmate just by seeing them once; Pray about it, If you are muslim, find out and say the 'istikhara', and God will help you out,.
time
Ria,
U wouldnt know until u go and see him/her personally
4 d 1st time..
Mine was an arranged marriage ..sort of..
I met my wife through my niece and her friend some 18 years ago.It was not love at first sight but after going out with
her for a few times and after a few months we were inseparable.I suggest u go out with him/her for a few times first as a foursome then go out one on one..
Good fortune smiles upon u..
Thanks
I'm only in my early 20's but i believe that i have found my soulmate. I have known him for 11 years. We went to primary school together and everything but lost touch for a few years. we finally got in touch again and wrotee letters and visited and stuff. But as much as people said that it was puppy love i felt something way back then and it is great today. he has moved from his family to come to me and is everything i ever wanted. i Believe that you just know and after time everything will come together.
I believe we have many soulmates. And I also believe that we have a destiny. This is difficult to answer because I live in a country where arranged marriages are not normal or acceptable. People marry for love. However, our divorce rate here is about 50%, so who's to say what is better - arranged or marrying by choice?
I think a soulmate is someone who is your best friend, someone who you can sense, if they dropped dead, you would feel it, even if they were 100 miles away. I don't think you can tell someone is your soulmate until you get to know them. In any relationship, it takes a long time to get to know someone this intimately. And it also takes a lot of work and a lot of open communication.
I also think that your soulmate isn't just limited to your partner. You soulmates can include your family or closest friends. They are people that you have unbreakable ties with, that you will still feel a bond with long after one of you passes away.
If you are meeting someone for the first time, see if you are attracted to them, then talk to them and see if they have similar goals and directions in life to yours and if it feels like the conversation is easy and enjoyable, hopefully you will be able to build a longlasting, trusting friendship from there. If they are truly a soulmate, I think that your destiny has led them to you, and you should trust your instincts. Don't be afraid, if you keep an open mind, your instincts are usually always right. Also keep in mind that even if they are your soulmate, relationships are always hard work, just because it doesn't seem to be going right doesn't mean they're not your soulmate. You need to work at it and give and take a little. The good times will outweigh the bad if you've made the right choice.
The only sole mates are on the bottom of our shoes.
the laws of attraction is like this,like attracts like,so if you find yourself with someone that shares similar interest with you chances are will want to become closer to this person.this is because when there is a positive connection between 2 people automatically or unconsciously the spirits of the persons unite
Why is it that people believe that we have to be married to our soul mates? Soul mates are not necessarily the ones we married. It's a different kind of love, an inner connection that remains no matter where you end up...even living states apart. Our soul mates do not require sexual intimacy. My male soul mate lives very far away and my female soul mate lives thirty miles from me. Love relationships may come and go but soul mates are forever and then some!
hmmmmmm. sounds like indian
No soulmate. Keep your fingers crossed.
There was an interesting article in the local newspapers here recently about an arrange marriage.
The couple are in their mid 60s and have been married for nearly 40 years.
They guy said that he actually believes in arranged marriage. Why is that so? Because he said marriage is all about commitment! And if you don't date some one, you don't start comparing like 'He/She was like this before and now became like that.' He also said that families know better about the two individuals they want to bring together.
He was introduced to about 5 or 6 girls and when he met his now wife, he said he knew he could go along well together with her.
And well, after nearly 40 years he can't have been all that wrong.
Now whether you believe in this way of marriage or not, is another question. But I certainly found it a very interesting position.
Another article I read talked about that women should rely mainly on their guts feel as this is the biggest chance for them to get their Mr. Right...
I believe in purpose....if this person and you are meant to be together it will happen whether it be arranged or not.....
Can you ask questions? If so, A few I like when I am getting to know someone are...When you were a child what did you want to be when you grew up?...What is the best childhood memory? Who is your hero? Who played the biggest role in helping make you who you are today? If money wasnt an issue what would you do with your time? Where would you like to see yourself in five,ten, twenty years?
These seem to give me a bigger sense of who the person is. Did they fulfill their dreams? Are they happy with themselves and their families? Will they want to give you and your (hypothetical) children good memories?
For an arranged marriage you don't ever know what the person will be like, or if you will even like them much less love them. Go into the experience with an open mind and an open heart. It will take a lot of work and a lot of patience. Can you wait on the marriage part? If you can put it off for a while. You don't want to start off marriage with a rocky start. Good luck with everything!
First of all, I believe that there can be more than one person out there than can be our soul mate . I also believe that it is virtually impossible to know in a very short time, just because you have the same interests, morals, values, etc... does not mean you were meant to be together. It make take you years to be able to know for sure. You and your soul mate will still have arguments, fights, and bicker, but if they are your true soul mate they will put up with you through this and you will them. They will put up with your ideosyncrosies, your stupidity, your craziness, your bad attitude, and anything else that you do that is irritating. You and your soul mate, may not have a ton in common, or at least visibly. My wife and I have been together for 16 years, dated for 4 married 12. It took me having some very serious medical issues before we both realized what we had and were so lucky. Prior to my medical problems, we were nearingg divorce, not that we didnt truly love each other, but if you dont work hard at it you tend to grow apart. So, to make a long story short, you may never know that someone is perfect for you. It may take 6 months, or 20 years. Arrnanged marriages in my opinion would be terrible, because at that you dont have a choice of any of your partners qualities. At least with a standard marriage you get to chose some of those things. However, if you work very hard on the mariage you can probably still make it work, but it could be very difficult.
You need to go with your heart, it really comes from the inside, not just the outside.. people so forget about that, so many people are just out for looks.. i dont think there is such a soul mate, i think people are in love w/each other and connected through the heart, only your self can tell you if you think he is your soul mate.. I thought my 1st husband was my soul mate, well i guess that was not him after all.. But when u feel it in your maybe thats then..
Not everyone is meant to be together,But when you find your soul mate you'll know it in your heart,If you see him or her and it takes your breath when they walk into the room and when they leave a little piece of you goes with them,and you couldn't imagine life with out them that's what i consider to be a soul mate
LETS TAKE AN EXAMPLE OF ARRANGE MARRIAGE........
we are going to meet a person to whom we have never seened before,and have to decide then only that (we like him or not)we are going to marry him or not.
so how will know that he/she is our soulmate in such a short time?
plz answer me that how we could know the perfect one.....
suggest ur b'ful experiences,the best one will get the 20 points.
Answers: From the moment I met my childs father i instantly felt a connection with him. We became friends and shortly after I said a prayer. I was about to be going off to college or the military and i wanted to know my purpose and the road should travel. I was never ment to have kids so that was the furthest thing from my mind. We took things to the next step and I became pregnant. I knew the moment of us doing so that I was. I tell you this only because no matter how difficult things may be the person you should be with is who you will end up with. my heart is with him wherever he is, there isn't a second that I see him that my heart isn't racing and my energy levels rise. Look into this person's eyes. Do you see yourself? the moment that they touch you do you feel anything. When its the person you are ment to love you will feel it throughout tour body. even with just a look. you will know. I'm not saying that you shouldn't go through with this arrangement. some people fall in love with a person over time, others just know. Follow your instincts. If this is a person you think could love you and you love them back and have each others best interests at heart go for it. good luck
Do you really believe there is something called soul mate ?
Our beliefs are a mental status that are formed partially by our emotions and partially by our habits.
If you meet someone, who generally appeals to you emotionally, and you start acting as if this person is your soul mate, overtime and out of habit and affection this person will be your soul mate .
Time, it takes time be patient.
Chances are high that it wont be your soul mate. Just from personal expreience you cant put two people together and force them to love each other. There love should grow naturally and blossom into a flower. Heidi
Just look at the good in a person and live with the bad, unless it is self destructive. Everyone has their problems.
Many 'soul mates' discover that they have found the one after months of dating. It's not instant pudding, girl.
love is not something you can go out and look for..we all have our lives planed out for us and i strongly believe in fate!!! people believe dating the country will find their soulmate and that if you stop dating you are going to miss that Mr. right that is out there.. you will find you love in the most unexpected place and once youv found your soul mate, you will know, u wont have to ask.. its a wonderful feeling!! follow your heart.. gdluck
there is absolutely no way u can deside whether he is your soul mate or not from the first sight. u have to communicate with a person for some time. sometimes (very often) people live together all their lives but they re still not soul mates. sorry noone can help u on this one.
Follow your heart
you will defenitely get your answer
I doubt if you will be able to decide if someone is a soulmate just by seeing them once; Pray about it, If you are muslim, find out and say the 'istikhara', and God will help you out,.
time
Ria,
U wouldnt know until u go and see him/her personally
4 d 1st time..
Mine was an arranged marriage ..sort of..
I met my wife through my niece and her friend some 18 years ago.It was not love at first sight but after going out with
her for a few times and after a few months we were inseparable.I suggest u go out with him/her for a few times first as a foursome then go out one on one..
Good fortune smiles upon u..
Thanks
I'm only in my early 20's but i believe that i have found my soulmate. I have known him for 11 years. We went to primary school together and everything but lost touch for a few years. we finally got in touch again and wrotee letters and visited and stuff. But as much as people said that it was puppy love i felt something way back then and it is great today. he has moved from his family to come to me and is everything i ever wanted. i Believe that you just know and after time everything will come together.
I believe we have many soulmates. And I also believe that we have a destiny. This is difficult to answer because I live in a country where arranged marriages are not normal or acceptable. People marry for love. However, our divorce rate here is about 50%, so who's to say what is better - arranged or marrying by choice?
I think a soulmate is someone who is your best friend, someone who you can sense, if they dropped dead, you would feel it, even if they were 100 miles away. I don't think you can tell someone is your soulmate until you get to know them. In any relationship, it takes a long time to get to know someone this intimately. And it also takes a lot of work and a lot of open communication.
I also think that your soulmate isn't just limited to your partner. You soulmates can include your family or closest friends. They are people that you have unbreakable ties with, that you will still feel a bond with long after one of you passes away.
If you are meeting someone for the first time, see if you are attracted to them, then talk to them and see if they have similar goals and directions in life to yours and if it feels like the conversation is easy and enjoyable, hopefully you will be able to build a longlasting, trusting friendship from there. If they are truly a soulmate, I think that your destiny has led them to you, and you should trust your instincts. Don't be afraid, if you keep an open mind, your instincts are usually always right. Also keep in mind that even if they are your soulmate, relationships are always hard work, just because it doesn't seem to be going right doesn't mean they're not your soulmate. You need to work at it and give and take a little. The good times will outweigh the bad if you've made the right choice.
The only sole mates are on the bottom of our shoes.
the laws of attraction is like this,like attracts like,so if you find yourself with someone that shares similar interest with you chances are will want to become closer to this person.this is because when there is a positive connection between 2 people automatically or unconsciously the spirits of the persons unite
Why is it that people believe that we have to be married to our soul mates? Soul mates are not necessarily the ones we married. It's a different kind of love, an inner connection that remains no matter where you end up...even living states apart. Our soul mates do not require sexual intimacy. My male soul mate lives very far away and my female soul mate lives thirty miles from me. Love relationships may come and go but soul mates are forever and then some!
hmmmmmm. sounds like indian
No soulmate. Keep your fingers crossed.
There was an interesting article in the local newspapers here recently about an arrange marriage.
The couple are in their mid 60s and have been married for nearly 40 years.
They guy said that he actually believes in arranged marriage. Why is that so? Because he said marriage is all about commitment! And if you don't date some one, you don't start comparing like 'He/She was like this before and now became like that.' He also said that families know better about the two individuals they want to bring together.
He was introduced to about 5 or 6 girls and when he met his now wife, he said he knew he could go along well together with her.
And well, after nearly 40 years he can't have been all that wrong.
Now whether you believe in this way of marriage or not, is another question. But I certainly found it a very interesting position.
Another article I read talked about that women should rely mainly on their guts feel as this is the biggest chance for them to get their Mr. Right...
I believe in purpose....if this person and you are meant to be together it will happen whether it be arranged or not.....
Can you ask questions? If so, A few I like when I am getting to know someone are...When you were a child what did you want to be when you grew up?...What is the best childhood memory? Who is your hero? Who played the biggest role in helping make you who you are today? If money wasnt an issue what would you do with your time? Where would you like to see yourself in five,ten, twenty years?
These seem to give me a bigger sense of who the person is. Did they fulfill their dreams? Are they happy with themselves and their families? Will they want to give you and your (hypothetical) children good memories?
For an arranged marriage you don't ever know what the person will be like, or if you will even like them much less love them. Go into the experience with an open mind and an open heart. It will take a lot of work and a lot of patience. Can you wait on the marriage part? If you can put it off for a while. You don't want to start off marriage with a rocky start. Good luck with everything!
First of all, I believe that there can be more than one person out there than can be our soul mate . I also believe that it is virtually impossible to know in a very short time, just because you have the same interests, morals, values, etc... does not mean you were meant to be together. It make take you years to be able to know for sure. You and your soul mate will still have arguments, fights, and bicker, but if they are your true soul mate they will put up with you through this and you will them. They will put up with your ideosyncrosies, your stupidity, your craziness, your bad attitude, and anything else that you do that is irritating. You and your soul mate, may not have a ton in common, or at least visibly. My wife and I have been together for 16 years, dated for 4 married 12. It took me having some very serious medical issues before we both realized what we had and were so lucky. Prior to my medical problems, we were nearingg divorce, not that we didnt truly love each other, but if you dont work hard at it you tend to grow apart. So, to make a long story short, you may never know that someone is perfect for you. It may take 6 months, or 20 years. Arrnanged marriages in my opinion would be terrible, because at that you dont have a choice of any of your partners qualities. At least with a standard marriage you get to chose some of those things. However, if you work very hard on the mariage you can probably still make it work, but it could be very difficult.
You need to go with your heart, it really comes from the inside, not just the outside.. people so forget about that, so many people are just out for looks.. i dont think there is such a soul mate, i think people are in love w/each other and connected through the heart, only your self can tell you if you think he is your soul mate.. I thought my 1st husband was my soul mate, well i guess that was not him after all.. But when u feel it in your maybe thats then..
Not everyone is meant to be together,But when you find your soul mate you'll know it in your heart,If you see him or her and it takes your breath when they walk into the room and when they leave a little piece of you goes with them,and you couldn't imagine life with out them that's what i consider to be a soul mate
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