Im getting married this June and i have mixed emotions.. pls help..?
Question: Im excited at the same time im worried what to expect after the wedding, the adjustments and living in together as husband and wife. I haave a lot of things in mind that streeses me out. Is this normal?
Answers: this is all to normal. woman get this a lot. its a big commitment. I mean your going to be together for the rest of your lives. Your scared and thats ok. Just realize there is nothing to be afraid of. your inlove to a wonderful man who loves you the same. and I am sure he can't wait to get married. the worst thing you can do is have cold feet and walk out the day of the wedding. but listen to your heart it never lies. I know you want to get married you afraid of the commitment and what is to come. again this is normal and a lot of people go through it. Just take deep breaths and think, think things through you want to be happy in this merriage not misrable.
I think it's normal. If you really love the man, then don't stress too much.
yes dis is normal!!!!! just w8 and see wat happens ur husband can fix everyting up in da end
thats completely normal... my sister went through the exact same thing when she got married... talk with your fiance about your feelings... it will probably comfort you to let him know whats going on and he deserves to be aware... it will all work out if you love him
Of course it's normal!!! Haven't you ever heard of cold feet??
Talk to your fiancee about it.. Be honest. From your question, i don't think it is that you don't actually want to marry him, i think everything is making you worry... It will be okay in the end. Just talk to him about your fears.. He will be your life partner, right? You will have many other fears and worries to discuss. If this is your first, you are lucky! Good luck honey!
Perfectly normal.....But are you SURE this is what you want? If it gets too overwhelming u should seek counseling.
put it off until you are completely comfortable this way you should be less likely to split
its just last minute jitters...think about if that person died tommorrow how would you feel with a life without them.
Don'y do it !! Instead hook up wid me. I promise to luv you forever and never raise the question of marriage..lol..
don't marry someone inless u are absolute sure that he is the one. u sound like hes the one in a way but look deep down inside your heart what does it say to do.
This is normal. Marriage does forever change your life. In my case, it was the best thing I ever did. My husband is my best friend. I am so happy to wake up every morning next to him. My family is the most important thing to me.
Try to relax. If you love each other and your relationship is strong you have little to worry about. Make it the happiest day of your life and dont think about that bad that could happen. Just think of the good your going to make happen.
Very normal to be excited and worried at the same time about marriage.
Here's a good way to sort it out:
Talk to your future spouse!!! Share with them that you are excited about getting married and that you love them, but that you're nervous about how well you'll both adjust. Talk it over together. Be prepared to share some examples -- like maybe you're worried about how to divide up the household chores. Discuss the examples and come to some conclusions. You probably have a list of little things that are nagging at you, but seem silly to bring up. SHARE THOSE!
I know that if I couldn't share these concerns with my spouse, I wouldn't have been able to get married. We work these things out together. That's what makes our marriage so strong!
IM GETTING MARRIED THIS JUNE TOO, THE 5TH. BUT IM REALLY EXCITED ABOUT IT. I MEAN YA I HAVE SOME FEARS, BUT ITS BASICALLY FINANCIAL FEARS, LIKE MEDICAL COSTS FOR DR VISITS AND MEDICINES. IVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE. SO I ASSUME YOU DONT LIVE TOGETHER NOW? IF NOT YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT WHO'S STUFF YOUR KEEPING AND WHAT YOUR GETTING RID OF. YOU NEED TO DISCUSS YOUR FUTURE AND MAKE SURE YOU BOTH WANT THE SAME THINGS OUT OF LIFE. LIKE KIDS FOR EXAMPLE. IF 1 OF YOU WANTS KIDS AND THE OTHER DOESNT, THERES GONNA BE A PROBLEM. YOU NEED TO DISCUSS WHAT YOUR ROLES ARE GONNA BE WHEN YOU MARRY, ASK HIM WHAT HE EXPECTS OF YOU AND YOU TELL HIM WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM HIM. TALK ABOUT HOW YOU'LL HANDLE BILLS, ETC. YOU NEED TO OPEN UP AND TALK HONESTLY TO EACHOTHER BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. YOU NEED TO WORK CERTAIN ISSUES OUT BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. JUST MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE SURE. IF YOU HAVE ANY MAJOR DIFFERENCES THAN DONT GET MARRIED.
of course its normal!!! This is a new situation and you dont know of what to expect of it. Maybe you should set your wedding date a little further back to give you time to think about what you are doing. If you are apprehensive about it you shouldnt do it. Why dont you try living together first for a couple of months and see how that works. Hope this helps
Have you talked about kids, in-laws. holidays, religion, how you want to raise kids? Have you both agreed to work through any issues that might arise, and to not use the word divorce?
Yes, its normal to be nervous. Most of us are. But i bet you are really excited too. You are about to promise to share your life with another person. Its a big step. As long as you trust him, you'll be fine!
you will be ok
It's normal but the important thing to remember is this... It's not about the wedding day, it's about the years after that day. Be excited to be marrying the man you love not the excitement that is going on with all the plans for it.There IS a big difference in the two.
What types of things are stressing you out? Try talking to someone that is not a relative, a pastor or an older person that you look up to; that will give you honest answers.
I aint been married but i would say that if you have mixed emotions i truly dont understand wht you are going through with it then????? I would only marry someone if i felt sure that i could be with that person till my dying day and that they could never be replaced by another. It sounds also like you have never even lived together????????? Believe me life and people change DRAMATICALLY when you move in together!!!!
I think you need to seriously reconsider and think about what you truly want and need. I also think if you do not live together now that you should try moving in somewhere first and see how that goes before you rush into marriage!! If you are already living together and you have mixed emotions you need to ask yourself WHY????? . Write down a list of pros and negs for getting married and see wat comes up!!
Good luck and remember you have all the time on the world to get married, Dont rush things. You only have this one life, Dont ruin it.
I sure hope it's normal. I am getting married in September and I have days when I can barely contain my excitement and other days when I feel like I want to cry because I am not sure whether I should marry him!!!! Its frustrating!!! Should I or Shouldn't I? Thats a question that seems to effect all soon to bes . in my opinion its Normal but thats me. If its not normal then we can go crazy together. Good Luck honey and take some time to relax!!!!
Answers: this is all to normal. woman get this a lot. its a big commitment. I mean your going to be together for the rest of your lives. Your scared and thats ok. Just realize there is nothing to be afraid of. your inlove to a wonderful man who loves you the same. and I am sure he can't wait to get married. the worst thing you can do is have cold feet and walk out the day of the wedding. but listen to your heart it never lies. I know you want to get married you afraid of the commitment and what is to come. again this is normal and a lot of people go through it. Just take deep breaths and think, think things through you want to be happy in this merriage not misrable.
I think it's normal. If you really love the man, then don't stress too much.
yes dis is normal!!!!! just w8 and see wat happens ur husband can fix everyting up in da end
thats completely normal... my sister went through the exact same thing when she got married... talk with your fiance about your feelings... it will probably comfort you to let him know whats going on and he deserves to be aware... it will all work out if you love him
Of course it's normal!!! Haven't you ever heard of cold feet??
Talk to your fiancee about it.. Be honest. From your question, i don't think it is that you don't actually want to marry him, i think everything is making you worry... It will be okay in the end. Just talk to him about your fears.. He will be your life partner, right? You will have many other fears and worries to discuss. If this is your first, you are lucky! Good luck honey!
Perfectly normal.....But are you SURE this is what you want? If it gets too overwhelming u should seek counseling.
put it off until you are completely comfortable this way you should be less likely to split
its just last minute jitters...think about if that person died tommorrow how would you feel with a life without them.
Don'y do it !! Instead hook up wid me. I promise to luv you forever and never raise the question of marriage..lol..
don't marry someone inless u are absolute sure that he is the one. u sound like hes the one in a way but look deep down inside your heart what does it say to do.
This is normal. Marriage does forever change your life. In my case, it was the best thing I ever did. My husband is my best friend. I am so happy to wake up every morning next to him. My family is the most important thing to me.
Try to relax. If you love each other and your relationship is strong you have little to worry about. Make it the happiest day of your life and dont think about that bad that could happen. Just think of the good your going to make happen.
Very normal to be excited and worried at the same time about marriage.
Here's a good way to sort it out:
Talk to your future spouse!!! Share with them that you are excited about getting married and that you love them, but that you're nervous about how well you'll both adjust. Talk it over together. Be prepared to share some examples -- like maybe you're worried about how to divide up the household chores. Discuss the examples and come to some conclusions. You probably have a list of little things that are nagging at you, but seem silly to bring up. SHARE THOSE!
I know that if I couldn't share these concerns with my spouse, I wouldn't have been able to get married. We work these things out together. That's what makes our marriage so strong!
IM GETTING MARRIED THIS JUNE TOO, THE 5TH. BUT IM REALLY EXCITED ABOUT IT. I MEAN YA I HAVE SOME FEARS, BUT ITS BASICALLY FINANCIAL FEARS, LIKE MEDICAL COSTS FOR DR VISITS AND MEDICINES. IVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE. SO I ASSUME YOU DONT LIVE TOGETHER NOW? IF NOT YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT WHO'S STUFF YOUR KEEPING AND WHAT YOUR GETTING RID OF. YOU NEED TO DISCUSS YOUR FUTURE AND MAKE SURE YOU BOTH WANT THE SAME THINGS OUT OF LIFE. LIKE KIDS FOR EXAMPLE. IF 1 OF YOU WANTS KIDS AND THE OTHER DOESNT, THERES GONNA BE A PROBLEM. YOU NEED TO DISCUSS WHAT YOUR ROLES ARE GONNA BE WHEN YOU MARRY, ASK HIM WHAT HE EXPECTS OF YOU AND YOU TELL HIM WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM HIM. TALK ABOUT HOW YOU'LL HANDLE BILLS, ETC. YOU NEED TO OPEN UP AND TALK HONESTLY TO EACHOTHER BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. YOU NEED TO WORK CERTAIN ISSUES OUT BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. JUST MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE SURE. IF YOU HAVE ANY MAJOR DIFFERENCES THAN DONT GET MARRIED.
of course its normal!!! This is a new situation and you dont know of what to expect of it. Maybe you should set your wedding date a little further back to give you time to think about what you are doing. If you are apprehensive about it you shouldnt do it. Why dont you try living together first for a couple of months and see how that works. Hope this helps
Have you talked about kids, in-laws. holidays, religion, how you want to raise kids? Have you both agreed to work through any issues that might arise, and to not use the word divorce?
Yes, its normal to be nervous. Most of us are. But i bet you are really excited too. You are about to promise to share your life with another person. Its a big step. As long as you trust him, you'll be fine!
you will be ok
It's normal but the important thing to remember is this... It's not about the wedding day, it's about the years after that day. Be excited to be marrying the man you love not the excitement that is going on with all the plans for it.There IS a big difference in the two.
What types of things are stressing you out? Try talking to someone that is not a relative, a pastor or an older person that you look up to; that will give you honest answers.
I aint been married but i would say that if you have mixed emotions i truly dont understand wht you are going through with it then????? I would only marry someone if i felt sure that i could be with that person till my dying day and that they could never be replaced by another. It sounds also like you have never even lived together????????? Believe me life and people change DRAMATICALLY when you move in together!!!!
I think you need to seriously reconsider and think about what you truly want and need. I also think if you do not live together now that you should try moving in somewhere first and see how that goes before you rush into marriage!! If you are already living together and you have mixed emotions you need to ask yourself WHY????? . Write down a list of pros and negs for getting married and see wat comes up!!
Good luck and remember you have all the time on the world to get married, Dont rush things. You only have this one life, Dont ruin it.
I sure hope it's normal. I am getting married in September and I have days when I can barely contain my excitement and other days when I feel like I want to cry because I am not sure whether I should marry him!!!! Its frustrating!!! Should I or Shouldn't I? Thats a question that seems to effect all soon to bes . in my opinion its Normal but thats me. If its not normal then we can go crazy together. Good Luck honey and take some time to relax!!!!
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