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How long should i wait to get married?


Question: a guy that i have know for 6 months has asked me to marry him. the thing is that he is in the army
Answers: If in your heart, you think you both are ready then go for it...if you have a good support system behind you that will support your decision then let your heart lead the way....my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs and he is in the Army, he is leaving for iraq on tuesday...we are talkin about marraige...i've known he was the one since the day i met him but we are takin it slow so that we dont make no mistakes and we know eachother inside and out.....GOOD LUCK !!
You should wait until you are both ready to get married. Only you can make that choice.
at least 30 years old!!
IF YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART ITS THE RIGHT TIME, its the right time...but follow your first instinct..don't ponder on it too long....and in the long run..you'll be his confident....when he get out..he'll appreciate you alot for being by his side
wait till it feels right for you
well you know he has a good reliable job, you'll know when its time, if you have any doubts let it go a little longer if he loves you he'll understand
don't do it until you are SURE. 6 months isn't anything. I was with a guy for two years and we broke up recently. What's the rush? Take your time to know for sure he is the one
Until you are ready for the commitment.
Your the one that makes your own decisions , not me. You should wait until you are ready to get married. Also are you 18? You have to be 18 to get married. So , just tell him yes or no give him an answer then talk to him about getting married. If you really loved him you wouldn`t let the Army tear your love apart.
It really depends on how you feel about the situation. Do you really love this guy? Is it someone that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt, you want to spend your life with? I got married and I knew the guy for 2 years, we only dates for 2 months and really, there is so much about him that I didn't know. I wish I would have waited. Maybe you guys can date for a while and then maybe you can accept.
Wait till the two year mark, then you will have seen him for two summers and two of most holidays.

Best of Luck
you should wait until you feel ready and get to know him more...it's only been 6 months...i know there is such a thing as love at first sight but dont rush into something you are not 100% sure about...
marriage is a lifetime commitment. take your time to evaluate your relationship before you decide because a divorce is expensive and a big headache!
I read somewhere that you should never be engaged for longer than 18 monthes- fatal for the relationship
Wait as long as you like. When you do decide to settle down make sure you love him before you jump into anything. This is the rest of your life just make sure this is what you want to do.
Ask your heart, they'll be able to tell you. Him being in the army is a lot of lonely nights, are you sure you (or him) will be faithful to each other while the other is away? Six months isn't a very long time, but it's all up to you... Good luck!


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