I'm a 29 year old guy and I want to stay a virgin until I'm married? Do you girls find this nice or weird?
Question: I belive to wait for your wife is the most beautiful thing. It shows comitment love and respect. I want my wife to know she is that special one for me and my virginity is a gift for her. Are there any girls out there who wait until marriage to make love? How many of you would you date a virgin guy?
Answers: I think it's great - stay with it!
It makes you inexperienced. A girl to marry...a virgin one at your age will be rare.
It's unusual but I think that's great, good for you.
just as long as you dont live with your mother
wow I think that's wonderful. Just reading this question brought tears to me eyes..I am waiting till marriage also
i think you have respect for yourself as well as pride ,if men wont to marry virgins women have the same right
WEIRD
no thats weird and why wait if you wait odds are you will get someone with experience at your age and all you will do is disapoint them with your 30 seconds of lovin
Hmm, being compatible in sex is important. So if you wait until after you are married (trapped) you might find the two of you sexually incompatible. You have to try the person on. But if you think you can live with the unknown, good luck to you.
It can be nice. you have to be sure that the women you date or marry know about it and are okay with it or at least on an understanding and accepting level of your lifestyle choice.
you are very weird in my eyes, but other girls might like that
most girls like that...i say go for it
Nice! Nice! Nice! Please don't change your mind. I'm thirty and I'm a virgin. I hope that the guy I'll find someday has waited for me, too.
If those are your values stick with them. It's rare to find guys with values like yours. You have to find the right person to be your wife. There is someone for everyone. Don't give up.
you sir have not earned your penis
Cal: [David and Cal Playing a video Game] You're *gay* now?
David: No, I'm not gay I'm just celibate.
Cal: I think? I mean, that sounds ga- I just want you to know this is like the first conversation of like three conversations that leads to you being gay. Like... there's this and then in a year it's like, Oh you know, I kinda wanna, ya know, get back out there but I think I like guys and then there's the big, Oh I'm I'm a g-gay guy now .
David: You're gay for saying that.
Cal: I'm gay for saying that?
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How? How do you know I'm gay?
David: Because you macramed yourself a pair of jean shorts.
Cal: You know how I know *you're* gay? You just told me you're not sleeping with women any more.
David: You know how I know that you're gay?
Cal: How? Cuz you're gay? and you can tell who other gay people are.
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How?
David: You like Coldplay.
Your the next 40 year old virgin lol
dude dont wait have sex now. you may find it hard to find a girl that is ok with you not having sex
i believe the same thing. sex was meant for marriage, and God will bless you INFINITELY for keeping that covenant. one person said it'll make you inexperienced...so you'll have less STDs, and sex with your wife will be better because like i said, God will bless you for keeping that covenant. Stay strong. your story can really make a big impact on young people today if God gives you the opportunities to share it.
NICE... nothing weird or wrong about that.
i agree 100% with ur answer and how u feel. I dated my bf, and he and I were both virgins... I find it sexy lol. We've been together for 3yrs (in July) and we didn't wait til marriage. But i'm totally fine with that. It's great to know that i'm still with him and we're going to make it (gut instinct)
I believe that staying a virgin until marriage (whether male or female) is a testament of one's character. It takes an enormous amount of self control and self discipline to not succumb to the instant gratification of having sex with someone you're dating.
Who cares what other people or girls think? You truly are a rare exception among both sexes these days. Congratulations on sticking with your values. Your wife should count herself lucky to have you. I wish I would have waited until I was married to have sex, but I did not, and as a result, I had 2 babies out of wedlock.
not that I would never date a virgin, but marrying one would be hard.I myself was a virgin when I married at 22, and needless to say I am no longer married. The sex was horrible and no matter what we tried, our bodies just did not match.Sex is not everythin in a relationship I know,but it sure helps.Very kind of you to want to devote yourself to someone so whole,but honestly I would sample the platter before I purchased it.
I think it's great to wait.As far as me dating a virgin.I don't think I could because I am much too sexual for that.If I fell in love with you it would be almost impossible for me to keep my hands off of you,which in turn would probably make you uncomfortable enough to drop me.I do wish I had waited though.Hats off to you!!!
It is refreshing to hear of a young man your age who has such control over himself and commitmentment to his ideals. I'm sure there are many young women who would date you and who have the same level of commitment to their ideals.
I don't, however, think it would be a bad idea to educate yourself on the options of how to please your future partner and yourself in that realm. Going in virginal is wonderful, especially in this day and age. Going in ignorant is going to get boring after a while.
I do not think that is weird at all. If you can honestly wait then that's great! And the woman who marries you will be more in love with you because of it. And if she is weirded out by it, then she's not worth it. People talk about having inexperienced sex and finding someone who is sexually compatible - that's just crap....do you go looking for your future spouse based on whether or not they are good in bed? NO! I believe that if you are truly in love with each other, sex is going to be great no matter what. It's the 2 bodies in love that makes great sex...not 2 people who are experienced with sex. Good luck!
more power to you thats good idea you stick to what you want
I never buy a car without taking it for a test drive-my philosophy to almost everything.
I would date a guy that was a virgin, but I'm sort of like a guy.. I want to know what he's like or I'm getting out of it.
I think its kinda nice that you wanna wait!!!
well...it really made no difference to me when i got married. neither me nor my husband were virgins when we married. i believe in the saying you gotta try it before you by it but hey, if thats what you want to do then thats cool. Just know that its not likely the girl you meet will still be a virgin so while making her your first may be specail to you, you probably wont be hers. There arent many that i know of who wait. for a guy, it is kind of strange to hear that you are waiting, but good for you.
My Fiance and I both wish we would have waited. It would be so special to share that with your one .
WEIRD
Andrew I think you are very nice and smart. Do you expect her to be a virgin also. I noticed you said make love- not just sex. In my opinion you are on the right track buy some books and read them-not video.
Answers: I think it's great - stay with it!
It makes you inexperienced. A girl to marry...a virgin one at your age will be rare.
It's unusual but I think that's great, good for you.
just as long as you dont live with your mother
wow I think that's wonderful. Just reading this question brought tears to me eyes..I am waiting till marriage also
i think you have respect for yourself as well as pride ,if men wont to marry virgins women have the same right
WEIRD
no thats weird and why wait if you wait odds are you will get someone with experience at your age and all you will do is disapoint them with your 30 seconds of lovin
Hmm, being compatible in sex is important. So if you wait until after you are married (trapped) you might find the two of you sexually incompatible. You have to try the person on. But if you think you can live with the unknown, good luck to you.
It can be nice. you have to be sure that the women you date or marry know about it and are okay with it or at least on an understanding and accepting level of your lifestyle choice.
you are very weird in my eyes, but other girls might like that
most girls like that...i say go for it
Nice! Nice! Nice! Please don't change your mind. I'm thirty and I'm a virgin. I hope that the guy I'll find someday has waited for me, too.
If those are your values stick with them. It's rare to find guys with values like yours. You have to find the right person to be your wife. There is someone for everyone. Don't give up.
you sir have not earned your penis
Cal: [David and Cal Playing a video Game] You're *gay* now?
David: No, I'm not gay I'm just celibate.
Cal: I think? I mean, that sounds ga- I just want you to know this is like the first conversation of like three conversations that leads to you being gay. Like... there's this and then in a year it's like, Oh you know, I kinda wanna, ya know, get back out there but I think I like guys and then there's the big, Oh I'm I'm a g-gay guy now .
David: You're gay for saying that.
Cal: I'm gay for saying that?
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How? How do you know I'm gay?
David: Because you macramed yourself a pair of jean shorts.
Cal: You know how I know *you're* gay? You just told me you're not sleeping with women any more.
David: You know how I know that you're gay?
Cal: How? Cuz you're gay? and you can tell who other gay people are.
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How?
David: You like Coldplay.
Your the next 40 year old virgin lol
dude dont wait have sex now. you may find it hard to find a girl that is ok with you not having sex
i believe the same thing. sex was meant for marriage, and God will bless you INFINITELY for keeping that covenant. one person said it'll make you inexperienced...so you'll have less STDs, and sex with your wife will be better because like i said, God will bless you for keeping that covenant. Stay strong. your story can really make a big impact on young people today if God gives you the opportunities to share it.
NICE... nothing weird or wrong about that.
i agree 100% with ur answer and how u feel. I dated my bf, and he and I were both virgins... I find it sexy lol. We've been together for 3yrs (in July) and we didn't wait til marriage. But i'm totally fine with that. It's great to know that i'm still with him and we're going to make it (gut instinct)
I believe that staying a virgin until marriage (whether male or female) is a testament of one's character. It takes an enormous amount of self control and self discipline to not succumb to the instant gratification of having sex with someone you're dating.
Who cares what other people or girls think? You truly are a rare exception among both sexes these days. Congratulations on sticking with your values. Your wife should count herself lucky to have you. I wish I would have waited until I was married to have sex, but I did not, and as a result, I had 2 babies out of wedlock.
not that I would never date a virgin, but marrying one would be hard.I myself was a virgin when I married at 22, and needless to say I am no longer married. The sex was horrible and no matter what we tried, our bodies just did not match.Sex is not everythin in a relationship I know,but it sure helps.Very kind of you to want to devote yourself to someone so whole,but honestly I would sample the platter before I purchased it.
I think it's great to wait.As far as me dating a virgin.I don't think I could because I am much too sexual for that.If I fell in love with you it would be almost impossible for me to keep my hands off of you,which in turn would probably make you uncomfortable enough to drop me.I do wish I had waited though.Hats off to you!!!
It is refreshing to hear of a young man your age who has such control over himself and commitmentment to his ideals. I'm sure there are many young women who would date you and who have the same level of commitment to their ideals.
I don't, however, think it would be a bad idea to educate yourself on the options of how to please your future partner and yourself in that realm. Going in virginal is wonderful, especially in this day and age. Going in ignorant is going to get boring after a while.
I do not think that is weird at all. If you can honestly wait then that's great! And the woman who marries you will be more in love with you because of it. And if she is weirded out by it, then she's not worth it. People talk about having inexperienced sex and finding someone who is sexually compatible - that's just crap....do you go looking for your future spouse based on whether or not they are good in bed? NO! I believe that if you are truly in love with each other, sex is going to be great no matter what. It's the 2 bodies in love that makes great sex...not 2 people who are experienced with sex. Good luck!
more power to you thats good idea you stick to what you want
I never buy a car without taking it for a test drive-my philosophy to almost everything.
I would date a guy that was a virgin, but I'm sort of like a guy.. I want to know what he's like or I'm getting out of it.
I think its kinda nice that you wanna wait!!!
well...it really made no difference to me when i got married. neither me nor my husband were virgins when we married. i believe in the saying you gotta try it before you by it but hey, if thats what you want to do then thats cool. Just know that its not likely the girl you meet will still be a virgin so while making her your first may be specail to you, you probably wont be hers. There arent many that i know of who wait. for a guy, it is kind of strange to hear that you are waiting, but good for you.
My Fiance and I both wish we would have waited. It would be so special to share that with your one .
WEIRD
Andrew I think you are very nice and smart. Do you expect her to be a virgin also. I noticed you said make love- not just sex. In my opinion you are on the right track buy some books and read them-not video.
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