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A friend of mine siad that she needs a serious guy for a relationship, what can she do to get guys to luv her


Question: she needs a real guy that can take good care of her, love her nd cherish who she is,prov ide what ever she needs , care for hr , what can she do to make guys love her and make them also fell in love with her,she is a pretty girl and well decent
Answers: Well all I can say about this one is maybe she is looking in the wrong places. Let's just assume that she is still in school. I would not suggest finding a serious guy to quickly in the school enviroment. Believe it or not a lot of people find themselves in school (good attendence) for the wrong reasons. Let's face it, does anyone want to go to school everyday? NO. Some people find themselves going to school to meet that special someone, what they don't realize is that in school...people get involved with each other too quickly. By the first week people are saying, He loves me...we will be together forever . The sad truth is this is not usually the case. To find a guy that will cherish her persay...she may find one the question is how long. One thing that is understandable is that if she wants this Mr. Right so bad, she will find him, he just might be the right Mr. Right . I would personally advise waiting things out (as hard as it may seems) and just find yourself (herself) talking to a large spectrum of guys (kinda like putting out a resum'e). She wil meet a lot of different people and she what kinda of people she likes. Another thing is make sure that your friend knows how to flirt. Don't make it to obvious but don't sit there and wait to be picked up by someone either. Show signs of attraction and they may just be picked up upon. Keep in mind the world of dating is to find a love to find love. You can find love wherever you look, the true question is, is it real? Love is a two way wire, to make a connection both signals must me active. If only one person is trying they are the clinger and this leads to obsessions and often abuse. We will not go into that...hope this helps your friend .
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tell her not to go for match makers... Her best frnd might b tht person.... if she don't have ny male best frnd.. then.. it is a thing of worry ....
She sounds wonderful. Tell her to be patient and stop looking. Go out with her to places to meet people, especially men. Don't take meeting the men as being any means to an end. In other words, don't start evaluating a guy until she starts to get to know them. Get their phone numbers but don't give yours or hers out. Let her be in control, and set a ground rule that she has to meet 3 guys every week that:

1) She's not likely to run in the same circles.
2) She'd like to get to know more.
3) She's attracted to.

Within six months, she'll have a huge list of numbers and prospectives.

Most guys don't start off serious - but we become interested in a serious relationship when we meet the right girl and get to know her. Most guys who come off from the bat as serious are probably desperate.

Just be yourself, and have her be herself, and be a good 'wingman' to help her deflect the wonton filth that just wants a one-nighter.
Hun, tell her to be herself, what she is looking for will come along life is short as is relax time will tell, follow her heart , the right one will come along


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