How to find a real life partner?
Question: i want a life partner who will take real care and loves me truely.at present my parents have selected a guy for me.but i do not know whether he is good or whether he will true to me.he is not that very good looking as i expected and i don't know whether good looking really matters when it comes in finding a life partner.he is got a descent family back ground,good qualification,and ok salery,but every thing is below to my expectations.so i do not know whether to accecpt this person or not.i want the answer to my question,how to and in what category should i accept this person?
Answers: you cannot find one this way, it just happen.
If you feel something inside, then he is the one.
because people changed by the time and nothing stay the same.
your being to formal about it, go out and talk to guys you might get lucky.
First off tell your parens and your mail order partner to back off, The best way to find a life partner is to stop looking for one. It'll happen when you least expect it .. In a grocery store , church, mall, school and when it happens you'll know it . Don't ever settle for second best and don't ever think you'll grow into loving someones because that is crap . take you time and your sould mate will come sooner or later
just wait and don't be hurry
What country are you in? I think that parents don't always know what should be good for you. They see life how they want to see it and you cant really trust that. For example, the way my parents treated me seemed like it was good on the outside although there were those things that always made me wonder...
I realized what they wanted for me was not up to my standards they were looking at me as them. It really screwed me up because i didn't really get to know who i was really with. I got married and was depressed for seven years before i just ended up leaving one night and going across the country, never to be with her again. She was not into truly caring for my needs(although she acted like it) and turned out to just like my parents, one thing on the outside and then another on the inside. This is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, It's good to wait and really take the time to get to know this person.(at least the best you can.) Sounds like you have serious doubts... already and its okay. This is your life and no matter what culture or religion you are in you still have rights. the right to be happy and the right to find your dream man who makes your eyes sparkle. Yes, it is good to find out if he can take care of you, but it is good to really learn to stand on your own two feet so to speak. Nothing is for sure,(although we dream it is)and it is good to have something to fall back on. With me, I chose the wrong people all throughout my life. I did get a chance to learn alot about myself and my choices. Yet, because my parents had such an influence on me, i made some bad decisions.................
Never settle, i did and i am still paying for it.
Answers: you cannot find one this way, it just happen.
If you feel something inside, then he is the one.
because people changed by the time and nothing stay the same.
your being to formal about it, go out and talk to guys you might get lucky.
First off tell your parens and your mail order partner to back off, The best way to find a life partner is to stop looking for one. It'll happen when you least expect it .. In a grocery store , church, mall, school and when it happens you'll know it . Don't ever settle for second best and don't ever think you'll grow into loving someones because that is crap . take you time and your sould mate will come sooner or later
just wait and don't be hurry
What country are you in? I think that parents don't always know what should be good for you. They see life how they want to see it and you cant really trust that. For example, the way my parents treated me seemed like it was good on the outside although there were those things that always made me wonder...
I realized what they wanted for me was not up to my standards they were looking at me as them. It really screwed me up because i didn't really get to know who i was really with. I got married and was depressed for seven years before i just ended up leaving one night and going across the country, never to be with her again. She was not into truly caring for my needs(although she acted like it) and turned out to just like my parents, one thing on the outside and then another on the inside. This is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, It's good to wait and really take the time to get to know this person.(at least the best you can.) Sounds like you have serious doubts... already and its okay. This is your life and no matter what culture or religion you are in you still have rights. the right to be happy and the right to find your dream man who makes your eyes sparkle. Yes, it is good to find out if he can take care of you, but it is good to really learn to stand on your own two feet so to speak. Nothing is for sure,(although we dream it is)and it is good to have something to fall back on. With me, I chose the wrong people all throughout my life. I did get a chance to learn alot about myself and my choices. Yet, because my parents had such an influence on me, i made some bad decisions.................
Never settle, i did and i am still paying for it.
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